Song for wedding – examples and inspiration
Write the perfect wedding song with our verse examples, melody suggestions and tips to hit the right tone.
Wedding songs – a tradition
The wedding song is one of the most beloved elements of a wedding reception. It's typically sung during dinner and is a personal tribute to the couple.
The song is often written by friends, groomsmen/bridesmaids or family and sung by all guests to a well-known melody.
The best wedding songs tell the couple's love story – from the first meeting to the wedding day – with humour, charm and warmth.
Tips for writing a wedding song
- Tell the couple's love story chronologically
- Include funny details that guests will recognise
- Balance humour with romance
- 3–4 verses is perfect for a wedding song
- End with a verse wishing the couple all the best
- Choose a melody that all generations know
- Print the song and place it at each setting
- Coordinate with the toastmaster about when the song is sung
Frequently asked questions
When is the wedding song sung?
Typically during dinner, often between courses. The toastmaster announces the song.
Who writes the wedding song?
Friends, groomsmen/bridesmaids or family. Often people collaborate and divide the verses.
How many verses should a wedding song have?
3–4 verses is perfect. Enough room for the story without guests losing their voice.
Which melody is best for a wedding song?
Classic folk tunes and 'Daydream Believer' are among the most popular choices.
Add the song to the programme in your invitation
Create a digital wedding invitation with programme, songs and RSVP.