Confirmation speech examples – inspiration
Find the perfect confirmation speech with examples, structure and tips. Perfect for parents, grandparents and godparents.
When do you give a speech at a confirmation?
Speeches at confirmations are typically given during lunch after the church service. It's an intimate and personal part of the celebration.
The most common speeches are from parents, grandparents and godparents. The confirmand rarely gives a speech, but may thank guests for gifts at the end.
A confirmation speech typically lasts 2–4 minutes and is personal, warm and often a bit touching.
Structure for your confirmation speech
1. Greeting
Address the confirmand directly. Use their name and be personal from the start.
2. Childhood memory
Share a favourite memory from their childhood. Something that shows who they are.
3. Who they are today
Describe the qualities you admire about them. What makes them special?
4. Wishes for the future
Share your hopes and dreams for their future.
5. Closing
End with a warm greeting and possibly a toast.
Examples of confirmation speeches
Speech from mum
Dear [name],
I can still remember the day you were born. You were so small – and so perfect. From that moment, I knew you would make the world a better place.
You've always had a big heart. You're the one who picks others up, comforts and includes. You laugh the loudest and hug the hardest.
Today you've been confirmed, and I'm so proud of the person you're becoming. You're brave, clever and incredibly funny – even if you don't always tidy your room.
I wish you a future filled with adventure, good friends and the courage to follow your heart.
Congratulations on your confirmation, darling. ❤️
Speech from dad
Dear [name],
14 years. It doesn't sound like much – but you've already achieved so incredibly much.
I remember when you learnt to ride a bike. You fell 47 times (yes, I counted), but you got up every time. You still have that stubbornness – and it's one of your best qualities.
You're growing up, and that's both exciting and a bit scary – mostly for me. But I know you're ready.
Remember: You can always come home. My door is always open, and the fridge is (almost) always full.
Congratulations on your big day!
Speech from grandparents
Dear [name],
Being a grandparent is the best job in the world – because we get all the fun without the responsibility.
We've watched you grow from a tiny baby to a fantastic young person. You've always brought joy and laughter to our home.
We wish you all the best for the future. Be curious, be kind, and remember to visit us once in a while.
Congratulations on your confirmation! We're so proud. ❤️
Short and funny confirmation speech
Dear [name],
Congratulations on your confirmation! You're officially a young adult – with all the rights that entails. Unfortunately, that still doesn't include choosing your own bedtime.
Jokes aside – you're amazing. We're all proud of you.
Cheers! 🎉
Personal speech from godparent
Dear [name],
When I was asked to be your godparent 14 years ago, I said yes without hesitation. It's probably the best yes I've ever said.
I've followed you through all of life's big moments – from your first steps to today, when you stand here as a confirmand.
You're a truly special person, and I'm so lucky to have you in my life.
Congratulations – and remember: Your godparent is always just a phone call away. ❤️
Tips for a good confirmation speech
- Keep the speech between 2–4 minutes
- Speak directly to the confirmand
- Share a personal memory
- Avoid making it embarrassing – they're teenagers
- Balance humour with warmth
- Practice – but don't let it sound rehearsed
- Maintain eye contact
- It's OK to get emotional – it makes the speech authentic
Frequently asked questions
How long should a confirmation speech be?
A confirmation speech typically lasts 2–4 minutes. Keep it short and personal.
Who gives speeches at a confirmation?
Parents, grandparents and godparents typically give speeches. Close family friends may also contribute.
What do you say in a confirmation speech?
Share a personal memory, describe the confirmand's qualities, and share your wishes for the future.
Can you use humour in a confirmation speech?
Yes, humour is great – but remember that teenagers are sensitive. Keep it loving and avoid embarrassment.
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