Best Man Speech – Examples and Inspiration
Write the perfect best man or maid of honour speech. See examples of opening lines, structure and tips for hitting the right tone.
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Examples
Funny and personal best man speech
Dear everyone,
For those who don't know me, I'm [name] – [groom/bride]'s best friend and best man. I've known [groom/bride] for [number] years. We've shared everything – from university to that holiday in [place] we've sworn never to speak of again.
[Groom/bride], you've always been the calm one in our group. Loyal, funny and impossibly stubborn. Then you met [bride/groom]. Suddenly you were a different person: happier, softer and – yes, a lot harder to get hold of on Friday nights.
[Bride/groom], thank you for making my best friend happy. And thank you for putting up with the rest of us.
Cheers to the happy couple! 🥂
Touching best man speech
Dear [groom/bride],
When you asked me to be your best man, you said: 'It's just a speech.' But the truth is, there's nothing 'just' about standing here talking about the person who means the most to me.
When you met [bride/groom], I knew straight away. You spoke differently. You smiled more. You'd found the one you'd been looking for.
I'm grateful to have watched your love grow – and proud to stand here today.
Cheers to love! ❤️
Short and humorous best man speech
Dear guests,
I promised [groom/bride] I'd keep it short. So here goes:
[Groom/bride] is the world's best friend. [Bride/groom] is the world's best choice. Together you're unbeatable – and impossible to beat at board games.
I wish you all the best. Cheers! 😄
Helpful tips
- Introduce yourself briefly
- Tell the story of your friendship
- Mix humour with genuine emotion
- Avoid inside jokes only you understand
- Keep it under 5 minutes
- End with a clear wish and toast
- Practise out loud
- Don't mention exes
How to Write a Best Man Speech
The best man speech is one of the most anticipated moments at a wedding. As best man, you represent the couple's closest friendship – giving the speech a special intimacy.
Start by introducing yourself briefly. Then tell the story of your friendship: when you met, what you've experienced together, and what makes your bond special.
The best best man speeches are built on specific stories. The trip that went wrong, the unforgettable evening, the moment you knew your friend had found the one.
Humour is the best man's superpower. You're allowed to tease – but keep it loving and avoid topics that might make anyone uncomfortable.
End by welcoming the new partner and sharing a wish for the couple's future. A clear, warm close with a toast sends the whole room into celebration.
Frequently asked questions
What does a best man say in his speech?
The best man introduces himself, shares stories about the friendship, welcomes the new partner and finishes with wishes and a toast.
How long should a best man speech be?
3-5 minutes is ideal, roughly 500-700 words.
When does the best man give his speech?
Typically during dinner, often after the parents' speeches and before more informal contributions.
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